Teaching Everything You Know

 

Magic is one of those words that shifts meaning depending on who's asking and who's answering. It's been around for thousands of years, popping up in ancient rituals, stage shows, fantasy novels, card games, and even scientific philosophy. Today's Sunday Blog is all about the Magic of Grandpadom. 

Ah, but to become a Grandpa, you had to be.... just 'Pa'. You had to be a teacher.  

Fatherhood (and then Grandpadom) is all about the Magic of Teaching. (The Kind That Actually Matters). The real power shows up in the messy parts:

When you're dead tired but you still get on the floor and play. When you mess up (and you will) and have to look them in the eye and say, "I'm sorry. I was wrong." That's the spell of humility most men never learn. When you see your own flaws reflected in them and decide, right then, to become better so they don't have to carry what you carried. We are teaching everything we know, always.

As one wise reflection put it: "Fathering is not something perfect men do, but something that perfects the man." That's the deepest magic. It's alchemical. It turns lead into gold over years, not seconds.

The truest magic of fatherhood is that it keeps going. You pour everything into this little person, and one day they pour it into someone else. The love doesn't end, it multiplies. Teaching everything you know. Forever. The circle of life and whatnot. 

Even the illusionists get it. David Blaine, the guy who holds his breath for 17 minutes and does the impossible for a living, said becoming a father was the greatest trick the universe ever played on him. It reshaped his entire life. Elijah Wood made a whole movie about an aging magician reconnecting with his daughter through real-world "magic."

Because at the end of the day, the greatest illusion isn't making something disappear. It's making someone appear and then choosing, every single day, to show up for them. Teaching everything you know. Forever.

That's the magic of fatherhood. And then the magic of grandpadom. Their first teacher. And then the magic of grandpadom is watching the student (your children) becoming the masters. The children becoming the parents - becoming the teachers. We are all teaching everything we know. 

Now that I am writing this in 2026 (at 65 years old) the magical technology of today, the 'AI' that is changing the world will be a part of (all) of our children's and grandkids lives. The Internet is forever. 

AI will become the teacher - if not already the 'TA' (the Teaching Assistant). 

AI will read every post, every note, every document, view every video on any subject, any topic - any person. AI will research 'the life of' and tell it's tale. When my three (for now) grandchildren are old enough to ask their AI assistant, "Tell me about Grandpa" they will learn much. I wonder if my grandchildren will create an AI 'me' one day, and have conversations with virtual me. Oh boy. 

The future of work - the future of education - the future of entertainment - is in the clouds. Thanks to the magic of AI we are all....

Teaching Everything We Know. Forever. 

{ Or Grandma } 

Football is Family

 

Me and my Son Tommy at GIANTS Stadium

My Dad played Professional Football. "Two Ton Tony Capone" was a plugging fullback. He was also friends with Leon Hess, founder of the Hess Corporation, an oil company. Leon also owned the New York Jets. I remember asking my Mom "Who is that man in our kitchen with Mr. Hess? The guy with the big nose?" Oh, that is Joe Namath, he works for Mr. Hess. My Dad went to Super Bowl III in 1969 at the Orange Bowl. At 9 years old, I really did not understand how big a deal this was.

The first time that I wore a suit and tie was for Vince Lombardi’s funeral on September 7, 1970, at St. Patrick’s Cathedral in New York City. It was a massive, high-profile event attended by 3,000 mourners, with another 1,000 on Fifth Avenue, marking it as the largest at the cathedral since Robert F. Kennedy's in 1968. Following his death from cancer at age 57, he was laid to rest at Mount Olivet Cemetery in Middletown, N.J.

I was living in Boca Raton, Florida when the Miami Dolphins went 17-0. My favorite player was Larry Csonka, fullback. Like my Dad. I wore my '39' CSONKA jersey everywhere. Back to Back Super Bowl winners. Super Bowl MVP in 1973. When he wrote his memoir "Head On" in 2022, I was able to interview Larry for a CoffeeInTheClouds.com fireside chat. 

When I took over running the New York METRO Distance Learning Association our first event was at RUTGERS School of Business in Newark, NJ. We then all went to GIANTS Stadium to attend an event with the NFL Alumni Association. One of our topics of conversation was about how distance learning technologies were used in the NFL, especially during training camp. The NFL and their Alumni network helped me to 'reboot' the NYDLA.org (the association was nearly bankrupt at the time - struggling in the recession) and we never looked back. I would say that if it were not for RUTGERS and for the NFL there would be no NYDLA.org today. 

In 2009 I gave my son Tommy an autographed framed photo of 'The Helmet Catch' which hung on the wall of his bedroom at our home - 39 Oak Road for years. {39...again} 

The Helmet Catch was an American football play involving New York Giants quarterback Eli Manning and wide receiver David Tyree in the final two minutes of Super Bowl XLII on February 3, 2008. It featured Manning narrowly escaping a sack from three New England Patriots defensive players and throwing a forward pass, followed by Tyree making a leaping catch by pressing the ball against his helmet. The play, a 32-yard gain during a drive on which the Giants scored the game-winning touchdown, was instrumental in the Giants' 17–14 upset victory over the Patriots, who were on the verge of becoming the first National Football League (NFL) team to finish a season undefeated and untied since the 1972 Miami Dolphins, and the first since the NFL adopted a 16-game regular season in 1978. NFL Films' Steve Sabol called it "the greatest play the Super Bowl has ever produced". The play was also named by NFL Films as "The Play of the Decade (2000s)". It was also the final catch of Tyree's NFL career.

 

The Helmet Catch is on the wall at NFL HQ in New York City. It's on the wall (just on the other side of my son Tommy's desk). At NFL HQ. Where my son works. For the NFL. Tommy is an Adobe Champion, and my son helps the NFL to manage their 273M+ domestic fans via the Adobe for Business platform. And now: the GLOBAL NFL community.

The NFL has over 410 million fans worldwide, with a significant portion of its growth coming from international markets, particularly Mexico and Brazil. While heavily centered in the U.S., where over half the population are fans, the league's global, direct-to-consumer engagement has seen rapid expansion, with over 180 million fans in nine key international markets. 

Ah yes, the NFL is powered by Adobe. 

Key details regarding the NFL's global fanbase:

Top International Markets: Mexico leads with over 23 million to 39 million fans, followed closely by Brazil with 20 million to 36 million.

Other Key Markets: The United Kingdom, Germany, and Canada are also major international fanbases, with Germany having roughly 6.5 million, the UK around 6 million, and Canada over 7 million.

Growth Drivers: The league reaches over 195 countries, and international interest is driven by initiatives like the NFL's international games and increased engagement on social media, with over half of the league's, content engagement coming from outside the U.S..

Demographics: Latino communities represent the fastest-growing fan demographic, with Spanish-language broadcast viewership rising significantly. 

Gee, I wonder if we should be using Adobe for Business to help us to service the 174K+ K-20 schools (AND all of their ALUMNI) of the NADLA.org and now, the GlobalDLA.org 

"Yes, Dad, you should. You most certainly should be using Adobe for Business for the now GLOBAL DLA Community." 

"Play Like A Champion" {watch to the end}

Adobe for Business

See You See Me at ISE

 

My friend Jason Fried (of 37signals) has praised McMaster-Carr's website (www.mcmaster.com) as one of the best designed sites on the web, highlighting its purpose-built, no-frills, functional design that's fast and efficient for users who need to get in and out quickly. It's an eCommerce site specializing in industrial supplies, tools, and hardware, known for its simple yet highly effective interface.

Jason is correct. Now, what is funny is I could not remember the name of the company or their website this morning. So I asked Grok: Jason Fried mentioned a very elegant Ecommerce website - what was it? In a few seconds, Grok found the post from Jason. It was a post that he made on X (Twitter).

As of this Sunday Blog 85,000+ people are heading to Integrated Systems Europe.

Integrated Systems Europe, often referred to as ISE, is the world-renowned annual tech show for the audiovisual and systems integration industry. The industry turns to ISE for the inspiration and motivation required to drive things forward. At the four-day event each February, attendees reconnect with virtually impossible experiences, with networking opportunities, state-of-the-art technology, and their own career development. Since the first ISE in 2004, the event has grown year-on-year. In 2025, ISE hosted over 1,600 exhibitors (with countless new product launches) and attendees made over 185,700 visits to the show. Thousands of GlobalDLA.org members have (and will) attend ISE.

When I did a search on the ISE website, filter by Alpha, I put in L. Ah, I see our NYDLA.org vendors Logitech, Lenovo, LG, and 89 more NYDLA.org vendors with a name that begins with 'L'. OK, so it looks like 1,751 exhibitors with booths. Anyone (and everyone) in the ProAV, Audio, Lighting, Staging, Broadcast AV, Digital Signage, Smart Spaces, Unified Comm, Collaboration, Edtech... I could go on. 

Now it was only a few weeks ago that we attended NRF'2026 - The Big Show. With 40,000+ attending LIVE and 10X that number attending virtually, NRF is the largest annual event for the RETAIL industry. And the major topic at NRF (and at CES and I assume this year at ISE) was all things AI.

Especially Agentic AI for Commerce.

So this morning it hit me. Why not build out an Agentic AI Commerce site and load EVERYTHING. As in, every exhibitor of ISE. And every exhibitor of NRF and CES. And load the entire line cards of TD SYNNEX, and Ingram Micro, and D&H and Jenne and others.

Well look at that. Right on the bottom of the McMaster-Carr website they have a link for https://www.mcmaster.com/eprocurement/ to automate everything. Gee, I wonder if we can do the same thing with our distribution partnerships TD SYNNEX, and Ingram Micro, and D&H, and Jenne (and...and.....and....) so that our store (TAC-USA.com) could become an Agentic AI Commerce shop.

We have partnerships with Clover and BigCommerce and WooCommerce and Shopify (and...and....and...)

So the 'Shop' that our members find on the top left corner of NYDLA.org would be our Agentic AI Commerce store. With the entire line cards of all of the top telecom | technology vendors and carriers in the world. All hosted with the elegance and simplicity of the McMaster-Carr website. And it would be all powered by AI so that anyone can use the site. Via phone, via email, via text, and of course via visiting the website. All while letting our NYDLA.org members enjoy our $1B+ buying power.

Our 174K+ K-20 schools, our 16K+ municipalities, our 8K+ car dealerships, our 6K+ hospitals. And the ALUMNI of our 174K+ schools. All could have access to TAC-USA.com as a value-added NYDLA.org member benefit. We could run it all with a small team, probably less than a dozen people. And they could live anywhere in the world. They could do all of this from their home.

At the bottom of the ISE website it has an AI powered bot. Put in your company, title and it will tell you WHY you should attend ISE live. I put in NYDLA.org | CEO and here is what I got back in a few seconds:

So there are 4 key highlights, at least 18 exhibitors and 16 agenda items that would be a great fit for me:

As CEO of NYDLA, you are at the forefront of shaping how professionals learn and connect. Integrated Systems Europe (ISE) 2026 is the ideal setting to explore opportunities in future learning ecosystems, refine your AV/IT integration strategy, and discover new avenues for digital learning business growth to further your mission.  

Well now. MY AI bot is Bernice@NYDLA.org and she works 24x7x365 for our members. And she runs our Agentic Ecommerce store, fielding phone calls and live chats. Bernice will be running our NYDLA.biz (dot biz) Agentic Commerce shop. Our BigCommerce store with tens of thousands of SKUs processing millions of dollars in SAVINGS for our members. Bernice manages the entire line cards of TD SYNNEX, Ingram Micro, D&H, Jenne and many more. And Bernice never sleeps. And she loves working with humans (our staff and our members).

Welcome to the Age of AI - the Age of Agentic Commerce. 

Also this: Bernice was my Mom's name. 

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